glossy wrote:
i am no stranger to it, but forewarning is usually a good idea instead of finding out afterward if it was a good idea or not. It's a prickless move if you can't bring up something like that beforehand. granted, if it's someone you're going to fuck once a never see again then you're right in pushing your boundaries, but in any kind of fuckbuddy or romantic relationship you should bring this shit up.
seriously.
Dood, Look I aint an arsehole. I've been in long term relationships. Christ when I was 20 I was just starting out in a 4 year relationship. But I didnt know it at the time.....
One of the problems that I used to ha ve is that I would look at everygirl and imagine a relationship. Girls dont want that shit. They are just like me and you. They dont and never will admit it and I would never say it to them either, but they are. They look at a guy and within 2 seconds know if they are going to let them inside their knickers. Same as us. We look at a woman and know if we would bone them.
Women that are worth their salt arent looking around all the time for this perfect guy that will be the father of their kids and make a home for them. Woman that are worth it, sure they know what they want, but that usually starts off with a good old fashioned fuck session and the relationship slowly grows from that point. Trust isnt a hard thing to gain but its an easy thing to lose.
Of course I wouldnt just stick my dick up their ass and say "you like that you filthy whore" as I said before, you gotta be tactful, Most women ARE filthy whores in the bedroom, you just gotta get them worked up to the point that they act like you...... as I said tease a women with a good old lick out and slowly work the ass into it and if shes into it...... well you dont need to discuss it,
Actions speak louder than words my friend.
