Posted: Sun Mar 26, 2006 4:45 pm
Agreed.4days wrote:you must've seen how sick and misogynistic and bumming-obsessed american porn is, they're a very conservative people.
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Posted: Sun Mar 26, 2006 5:31 pm
eye...stay away from a married woman.
I had one, and only one, incident with a married woman at the bar I frequented (spontaneous kiss), and it was enough to start a rumor there that we were a thing, and that was something I cleared up ASAP because I didn't want to deal with a jealous husband coming around to shoot me.
I did have to turn down the chance for a midnight swim in the pool I ran with this lady. I was walking her home from the bar (this was when I worked as the doorman), she had my keys and wanted to go for a midnight dip at the pool I was managing - which we walked by on our way home. All I could think about was the whole thing ending like the pool scene in the first National Lampoon's Vacation.
It would have probably been worth it for the show I would have gotten, but I just couldn't do it.
I had one, and only one, incident with a married woman at the bar I frequented (spontaneous kiss), and it was enough to start a rumor there that we were a thing, and that was something I cleared up ASAP because I didn't want to deal with a jealous husband coming around to shoot me.
I did have to turn down the chance for a midnight swim in the pool I ran with this lady. I was walking her home from the bar (this was when I worked as the doorman), she had my keys and wanted to go for a midnight dip at the pool I was managing - which we walked by on our way home. All I could think about was the whole thing ending like the pool scene in the first National Lampoon's Vacation.
It would have probably been worth it for the show I would have gotten, but I just couldn't do it.
Posted: Sun Mar 26, 2006 5:51 pm
you're trying to justify something by outrooting the base, which is by birth girls and boys are treated in a different way, wether it's wrong or right, most girls are brought up to be more conservative in such matters, and that's what's expected of them. A guy grabbing a boob, which he knows he's going to probably get slapped for, and wont lead to anything, is totaly diff. than a girl grabbing some dudes crutch, or even kiss 'em for that matter.Wabbit wrote:That's alot of psychology for what might have been just a quick drunken "grab". You'll see a drunk guy grab any tit he can lay his hand on, no matter who it belongs too, but it doesn't mean anything other than he wanted to grab a tit--he was horny. When a woman does something similar, she has deep-seated emotional problems that reach back to childhood.ctrlnuke wrote:Women, in general are far more insecure than guys. They are attracted to what they can't get and a lot of them don't appreciate what they have. An easy way to fuck a girl is to genuinely not care about fucking the girl. I know it sounds weird, but if the woman is confident in herself she likes the challenge. In other words, she's got plenty of guys that would be willing to take her up on her flirty suggestions and she can't figure out why you don't want her. Then she gets insecure and the only way she can get rid of it is to get the man to cave. Obviously you're not interested in her and the woman is attracted to it for the sole selfish reason of being able to feed her ego and fill her insecurity.
I live in the heart of Las Vegas. I'm constantly around and have relations (not all sexual) with some of the most shallow and materialistic women in the world. I've seen it a lot.
Yeah, men and women are different...it just irks me that across the world, generally, women are held to a different standard than men are. So often when a man does something inappropriate, it's because he's "a stud"...a woman does approximately the same thing and she's a back-stabbing whore. Bunch of fuckers.
She conciously went beyond her expectations of this culture as a woman.
A guy can sit there and try to holler at 30 girls and he might get 5 hollers back if he's lucky, a girl on the other hand in most situations needs to holler once...
Posted: Sun Mar 26, 2006 9:46 pm
I'd be more inclined to believe that if she hadn't been drunk at the time. I still don't know how drunk she was. It's fairly common knowledge that you can bed a drunk girl easier than a sober one.Tsakali_ wrote:She conciously went beyond her expectations of this culture as a woman.
Posted: Sun Mar 26, 2006 9:51 pm
Unless you look like Geebs.
Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 12:02 am
It's not a higher standard, she's MARRIED.Wabbit wrote:That's alot of psychology for what might have been just a quick drunken "grab". You'll see a drunk guy grab any tit he can lay his hand on, no matter who it belongs too, but it doesn't mean anything other than he wanted to grab a tit--he was horny. When a woman does something similar, she has deep-seated emotional problems that reach back to childhood.ctrlnuke wrote:Women, in general are far more insecure than guys. They are attracted to what they can't get and a lot of them don't appreciate what they have. An easy way to fuck a girl is to genuinely not care about fucking the girl. I know it sounds weird, but if the woman is confident in herself she likes the challenge. In other words, she's got plenty of guys that would be willing to take her up on her flirty suggestions and she can't figure out why you don't want her. Then she gets insecure and the only way she can get rid of it is to get the man to cave. Obviously you're not interested in her and the woman is attracted to it for the sole selfish reason of being able to feed her ego and fill her insecurity.
I live in the heart of Las Vegas. I'm constantly around and have relations (not all sexual) with some of the most shallow and materialistic women in the world. I've seen it a lot.
Yeah, men and women are different...it just irks me that across the world, generally, women are held to a different standard than men are. So often when a man does something inappropriate, it's because he's "a stud"...a woman does approximately the same thing and she's a back-stabbing whore. Bunch of fuckers.
Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 2:18 am
What was I thinking. I forgot married men never stray, get drunk or do anything inappropriate. My bad.HM-PuFFNSTuFF wrote:It's not a higher standard, she's MARRIED.
Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 5:07 am
call me lazy but lately, i wont eat pussy unless i can lay on my back with my head on a pillow...
thought you should know...
thought you should know...
Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 5:20 am
I don't. I get drunk, but I keep my hands to myself or my wife. Matter of fact, most of the guys I know don't act like that.Wabbit wrote:What was I thinking. I forgot married men never stray, get drunk or do anything inappropriate. My bad.HM-PuFFNSTuFF wrote:It's not a higher standard, she's MARRIED.
Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 5:27 am
*fap fap fap fap fap fap fap*
"lady casino?"
yep
Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 4:40 pm
It would be harder I can imagine, to turn that situation down than the one I was in, that must have taken willpower...tnf wrote:eye...stay away from a married woman.
I had one, and only one, incident with a married woman at the bar I frequented (spontaneous kiss), and it was enough to start a rumor there that we were a thing, and that was something I cleared up ASAP because I didn't want to deal with a jealous husband coming around to shoot me.
I did have to turn down the chance for a midnight swim in the pool I ran with this lady. I was walking her home from the bar (this was when I worked as the doorman), she had my keys and wanted to go for a midnight dip at the pool I was managing - which we walked by on our way home. All I could think about was the whole thing ending like the pool scene in the first National Lampoon's Vacation.
It would have probably been worth it for the show I would have gotten, but I just couldn't do it.
And as far as hitting the married ones, there's really no point, if you ask me--there are far too many hot single women out there.
Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 6:04 pm
Kracus wrote:Unless you look like Geebs.
Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 2:03 pm
Most of the time, most women are fucking crazy batshit insane. They usually have this mask of Responsible Behaviour, but they don't fool me... at least 90% of them are emotionally unstable, much moreso than your avarage male.
PS I'm currently conducting an experiment on friendship between men and women by way of seeing this girl that amuses me, but attempting nothing sexual. I just want to know if it's feasable.
In a preemtive move i slept with her once at the very beginning of our friendship, to sort of get that sexual tension out of the air, then i stopped trying. So far she's accepting the situation - we do nice stuff, like visit museums and watch movies and get drunk. It has all the benefits of both being single and having a relationship, only without the physical intimacy... which is of course a major drawback.
PS I'm currently conducting an experiment on friendship between men and women by way of seeing this girl that amuses me, but attempting nothing sexual. I just want to know if it's feasable.
In a preemtive move i slept with her once at the very beginning of our friendship, to sort of get that sexual tension out of the air, then i stopped trying. So far she's accepting the situation - we do nice stuff, like visit museums and watch movies and get drunk. It has all the benefits of both being single and having a relationship, only without the physical intimacy... which is of course a major drawback.
Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 2:06 pm
a lot of bitterness in this oneWabbit wrote:What was I thinking. I forgot married men never stray, get drunk or do anything inappropriate. My bad.HM-PuFFNSTuFF wrote:It's not a higher standard, she's MARRIED.
Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 2:09 pm
so basically what you are saying is you aint half the man you should be and you chickened out aight?tnf wrote:
It would have probably been worth it for the show I would have gotten, but I just couldn't do it.
Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 3:01 pm
at a family get together during christmas my uncles wife(buzz on)started licking my ear in the kitchen.
she's hot but i didn't think it was a good idea to take it any further. lol
she's hot but i didn't think it was a good idea to take it any further. lol
Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 3:07 pm
That was probably a wise decision. 
Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 3:14 pm
yeah it's on of those things i have'nt told anyone till now.
it would probably make some good conversation at the table during next thanksgivings get together.
it would probably make some good conversation at the table during next thanksgivings get together.
Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 3:48 am
No, I couldn't do that because she was married.dmmh wrote:so basically what you are saying is you aint half the man you should be and you chickened out aight?tnf wrote:
It would have probably been worth it for the show I would have gotten, but I just couldn't do it.
Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 4:00 am
underpants?: what was the fallout from the incident?
wabbit: so you cut the woman slack for her actions but if a man does it, he's repugnant? double standard indeed
wabbit: so you cut the woman slack for her actions but if a man does it, he's repugnant? double standard indeed
Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 4:05 am
HM-PuFFNSTuFF wrote:underpants?: what was the fallout from the incident?
wabbit: so you cut the woman slack for her actions but if a man does it, he's repugnant? double standard indeed
How did you possibly get that out of what I said? Cause I don't see it.
If you read what I first said, I said men and women do inappropriate things when drunk....I cut slack both ways.
It's funny you use the word repugnant too. I've never indicated I have any hostile feelings towards men as a group. They're just men doing men things. Women are just women doing women things. I try to base what I think about something on the situation, not on generalizations, though sometimes that's all we have to go on.
What I find repugnant is the double standard used to judge women in certain situations and men in certain situations. It's a blade that cuts both ways.
Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 4:07 am
dirty whore
Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 4:08 am
filthy prick
Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 4:20 am
get a room you two
Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 4:53 am
dr. spliffnstuff, everyone was so damaged the next day never came to be. Sunday was completely swallowed into an aching black hole.
A few postmortem conversations bear no hard feelings as it's playing out.
I must not read the action well in those situations.
