so, remember that time i told you guys....

[Tormentius]

anyone who serves a country is a moron...

Yeah, being a male house-bitch is a much better career choice. I bet the wife's got your sack on display at work like a trophy.

[Freakaloin]

thats how a moron would look at it...i look at it as retirement...ahhhhh...

[YourGrandpa]

God Gramps you are such a patronizing cunt. What have you got to show for your fantastically-planned lifestyle apart from a TV that's slightly bigger than your SUV, eh?

It's called being prepared and planning for children. I was ready to settle down and start a family, both mentally and financially when I did so. I partied through my 20's and experienced many other women before asking my wife to marry me. Therefore I'd have no regrets settling down with her. I had a stable career with a healthy income. Establishing the fact that I'd have no problems supporting a family. I lived with my wife for several years before I married or had a child with her. Enabling me to get the know the real person and avoid making a monumental mistake. I was 29 when I got married in July of 1999, closed on a newly built home December of 1999 and became a proud father in December of 2000. I have spent some time planning my life. That's why I have a great wife, a great son, a good job, a fat bank account and a bright future. My family and I will never be without. Our home will be paid off before I'm fifty and we'll be able to coast though our later years with no worries.

Now buy no means am I perfect or even suggesting that my life is better than everyone elses. But at least I've taken the necessary care when obligating myself to another person for the rest of my days and bringing another life into this world.

[YourGrandpa]

What about your father-in-law?

Never met him.

[Tormentius]

Now buy no means am I perfect or even suggesting that my life is better than everyone elses. But at least I've taken the necessary care when obligating myself to another person for the rest of my days and bringing another life into this world.

Your odds of divorce are as good or better than Obliv's. Thats something to consider when you're straining a muscle trying to pat yourself on the back.

[YourGrandpa]

How in fuck did you make the mental leap that Obliv wanting to serve his country means he wants everyone to pay for him?!

:icon27:

why do i need a second job? the military pays

she wants to be an at home mom.

her father was in the military and he suggested i join

we already plan for her to move on base with me for the first few years anyways

BECAUSE AT 22 MY GOALS HAVENT BEEN PLANNED AT ALL


costs nothing. canada doesnt have an anal medicare system.

[YourGrandpa]

Now buy no means am I perfect or even suggesting that my life is better than everyone elses. But at least I've taken the necessary care when obligating myself to another person for the rest of my days and bringing another life into this world.

Your odds of divorce are as good or better than Obliv's. Thats something to consider when you're straining a muscle trying to pat yourself on the back.

What would you know about a successful marriage?

[Tormentius]

That isn't everyone paying for him, thats just using the benefits that his career choice entails. No different than taking advantage of the dental or medical plan your work has.

Its Canada, we don't have to bent over by HMOs for our medical care.

[Tormentius]

What would you know about a successful marriage?

Enough to know that in North America 60% of them fail so your odds are pretty bad. Ya see, I got out of mine while young and doing better for myself every year. When it hits you you'll be used up, fat, bald, and only have the 'Net left to prove yourself on (oh wait...).

[YourGrandpa]

That isn't everyone paying for him, thats just using the benefits that his career choice entails. No different than taking advantage of the dental or medical plan your work has.

Its Canada, we don't have to bent over by HMOs for our medical care.

He's joing the army for the benefits (that everyone else in the country happens to pay for), not because he planned to. He only got the idea recently from her dad. He's also counting on the free housing for him, his woman and bastard child because he could never support all three of them on his own.(How many jobs give you a free place to live?) He doesn't think he should need to work a second job, even though he has a woman who doesn't plan to work and him without an established profession. Why? Because the military will pick up the tab.

That's my idea of a leech.

[Tormentius]

That's my idea of a leech.

Yes but thats why your ideas are generally laughed at around here. FYI, he mentioned the military to me in an IM conversation months back (before this) but way to assume :icon14:

[YourGrandpa]

What would you know about a successful marriage?

Enough to know that in North America 60% of them fail so your odds are pretty bad. Ya see, I got out of mine while young and doing better for myself every year. When it hits you you'll be used up, fat, bald, and only have the 'Net left to prove yourself on (oh wait...).

I've got nothing to prove and you're still an overweight, womanless nerd on the internet that has no room to preach to anyone about relationships.

BLNT.

[YourGrandpa]

That's my idea of a leech.

Yes but thats why your ideas are generally laughed at around here. FYI, he mentioned the military to me in an IM conversation months back (before this) but way to assume :icon14:

People around here jump on the wagon because they want to seem cool to the other nerds on the internet. FYI, you're one of those nerds.

[Tormentius]

I've got nothing to prove and you're still an overweight, womanless nerd on the internet that has no room to preach to anyone about relationships.

BLNT.

Awww....did I touch a nerve? Poor gramps, failing once again and flailing with his feeble imagination to try to recover.

[+JuggerNaut+]

God Gramps you are such a patronizing cunt. What have you got to show for your fantastically-planned lifestyle apart from a TV that's slightly bigger than your SUV, eh?

It's called being prepared and planning for children. I was ready to settle down and start a family, both mentally and financially when I did so. I partied through my 20's and experienced many other women before asking my wife to marry me. Therefore I'd have no regrets settling down with her. I had a stable career with a healthy income. Establishing the fact that I'd have no problems supporting a family. I lived with my wife for several years before I married or had a child with her. Enabling me to get the know the real person and avoid making a monumental mistake. I was 29 when I got married in July of 1999, closed on a newly built home December of 1999 and became a proud father in December of 2000. I have spent some time planning my life. That's why I have a great wife, a great son, a good job, a fat bank account and a bright future. My family and I will never be without. Our home will be paid off before I'm fifty and we'll be able to coast though our later years with no worries.

Now buy no means am I perfect or even suggesting that my life is better than everyone elses. But at least I've taken the necessary care when obligating myself to another person for the rest of my days and bringing another life into this world.

well done. almost as good as me, minus the wife and the kid. =o

[+JuggerNaut+]

settle down peeps.

[bork[e]]

lots of dudes wanting to be like Obliv here, not that hard guys...

[feedback]

congrats

[Geebs]

God Gramps you are such a patronizing cunt. What have you got to show for your fantastically-planned lifestyle apart from a TV that's slightly bigger than your SUV, eh?

It's called being prepared and planning for children. I was ready to settle down and start a family, both mentally and financially when I did so. I partied through my 20's and experienced many other women before asking my wife to marry me. Therefore I'd have no regrets settling down with her. I had a stable career with a healthy income. Establishing the fact that I'd have no problems supporting a family. I lived with my wife for several years before I married or had a child with her. Enabling me to get the know the real person and avoid making a monumental mistake. I was 29 when I got married in July of 1999, closed on a newly built home December of 1999 and became a proud father in December of 2000. I have spent some time planning my life. That's why I have a great wife, a great son, a good job, a fat bank account and a bright future. My family and I will never be without. Our home will be paid off before I'm fifty and we'll be able to coast though our later years with no worries.

Now buy no means am I perfect or even suggesting that my life is better than everyone elses. But at least I've taken the necessary care when obligating myself to another person for the rest of my days and bringing another life into this world.

Gramps. you got married, had a kid, and settled down to a life of suburban mediocrity. What do you want, a medal?

[seza]

obl!iovno00n.nn is passing on his seed. yeah, i have high hopes for generation next

[ajerara]

Canada does provide a lot of benefits, but usually in Socialist countries people pay a really high income tax rate, cause the money has to come from somewhere. It sounds to me like Oblivion is joining the military to get job training as well, which is not uncommon here.

[seza]

..or because the only outstanding talent he has is being able to fool an eye examiner.

[Oblivi0.on]

That isn't everyone paying for him, thats just using the benefits that his career choice entails. No different than taking advantage of the dental or medical plan your work has.

Its Canada, we don't have to bent over by HMOs for our medical care.

He's joing the army for the benefits (that everyone else in the country happens to pay for), not because he planned to. He only got the idea recently from her dad. He's also counting on the free housing for him, his woman and bastard child because he could never support all three of them on his own.(How many jobs give you a free place to live?) He doesn't think he should need to work a second job, even though he has a woman who doesn't plan to work and him without an established profession. Why? Because the military will pick up the tab.

That's my idea of a leech.

actually i've considered the army since i was 18. i just happened to move alot (about 23 times) between the ages of 18 and 20. i moved to sydney in January of 2004 and decided it was about time i finally got around to finishing up my application to join. Her father was in the military for 23 years and he was a big supporter during my training for it, i fail to see how thats me only doing it because daddy asked me to.

Personally i think the army will be a wonderful choice. Everyone makes different decisions and life a different life. doest means anyones is any better than anyone elses.

sidenote: you seem very pessimistic.

[Ryoki]

GG.

So when's the marriage? :P

[Oblivi0.on]

GG.

So when's the marriage? :P

so... marriage anytime soon?

we decided there is no point in rushing marriage. we dont think we are at that point yet and rushing things can cause problems in the future.