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k so here is a theory about girls

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 7:13 am
by Tsakali_
I am kinda drunk and I don't feel like explaining too much but here goes the main point.

I do believe that no matter the character of a girl, at the least 60% of the decision making point of having sex or not having sex is totaly dependent on the (lack of ta better word) skills of the guy and only about 30 or 40% at the very most depentent on the character/mood of the girl.

Meaning if a girl is already fairly attracted to the guy , then the guy would have an astronomicaly better chance of getting lucky based on the way he handles the situation(read: girl)

do you agree? if not please share

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 7:16 am
by glossy
i agree, and it's the same the other way around. If i'm not in the mood (yes, it happens sometimes) then she'd better be pretty persuasive or someone i know is good at it.

Some nights, you really just can't be bothered going the extra effort for a [potentially] shitty lay.

Re: k so here is a theory about girls

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 7:16 am
by [FTF]Pyro
Tsakali_ wrote:I am kinda drunk and I don't feel like explaining too much but here goes the main point.

I do believe that no matter the character of a girl, at the least 60% of the decision making point of having sex or not having sex is totaly dependent on the (lack of ta better word) skills of the guy and only about 30 or 40% at the very most depentent on the character/mood of the girl.

Meaning if a girl is already fairly attracted to the guy , then the guy would have an astronomicaly better chance of getting lucky based on the way he handles the situation(read: girl)

do you agree? if not please share



its 100% if the girl wants to drive


We're just there for the ride.

Re: k so here is a theory about girls

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 7:20 am
by Tsakali_
[FTF]Pyro wrote:
Tsakali_ wrote:I am kinda drunk and I don't feel like explaining too much but here goes the main point.

I do believe that no matter the character of a girl, at the least 60% of the decision making point of having sex or not having sex is totaly dependent on the (lack of ta better word) skills of the guy and only about 30 or 40% at the very most depentent on the character/mood of the girl.

Meaning if a girl is already fairly attracted to the guy , then the guy would have an astronomicaly better chance of getting lucky based on the way he handles the situation(read: girl)

do you agree? if not please share



its 100% if the girl wants to drive


We're just there for the ride.
are you just making an attempt at a cool catchy reply or do you really believe that, cause if you do, atleast to some extend you should kill yourself

Re: k so here is a theory about girls

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 7:20 am
by busetibi
Tsakali_ wrote:
Meaning if a girl is already fairly attracted to the guy , then the guy would have an astronomicaly better chance of getting lucky based on the way he handles the situation(read: girl)

do you agree? if not please share
its a given that if the girl/female is attracted to you your chance of rooting her is much better.
i would put it at 9 times out of 10
:shrug:
never been a problem for me tbh

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 7:27 am
by Tsakali_
I don't want this to be missunderstood. I am not really talking about some slick club going dude who picks girls up, I'm more likely yelding towards a boyfriend girlfriend relationship. in the case of the girl not really instigating sex, does the boyfriend's chances of initiatring it depend on the way he handles it or not?

if this is not transparent enough , I was basicaly looking forward at porking my gf but she wasn't in the mood, and to some point I hold my self personaly responsible for my failure :icon32:

Re: k so here is a theory about girls

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 7:27 am
by [FTF]Pyro
Tsakali_ wrote:


are you just making an attempt at a cool catchy reply or do you really believe that, cause if you do, atleast to some extend you should kill yourself


you honestly think that you choose which woman you wanna fuck.... bullshit. Next time you walk into a bar, cinema, shopping mall open your eyes and see which ones are looking at you and which ones arent


If you already do this then its exactly what I am talking about. If a women wants to have sex, shes having sex. If she doesnt there aint no way any amount of charm, patter, looks or whatever is charming the knickers off her.... it just aint happening.

Re: k so here is a theory about girls

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 7:29 am
by Tsakali_
[FTF]Pyro wrote:
Tsakali_ wrote:


are you just making an attempt at a cool catchy reply or do you really believe that, cause if you do, atleast to some extend you should kill yourself


you honestly think that you choose which woman you wanna fuck.... bullshit. Next time you walk into a bar, cinema, shopping mall open your eyes and see which ones are looking at you and which ones arent


If you already do this then its exactly what I am talking about. If a women wants to have sex, shes having sex. If she doesnt there aint no way any amount of charm, patter, looks or whatever is charming the knickers off her.... it just aint happening.
well to some extend I wish this to be true, atleast in that sense why bother stressing over something you don't have control over

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 7:30 am
by [FTF]Pyro
Tsakali_ wrote:, I was basicaly looking forward at porking my gf but she wasn't in the mood, and to some point I hold my self personaly responsible for my failure :icon32:
So now we get down to the real point of it all.


man the reason you aint busting a nut on her right now is this.

nd to some point I hold my self personaly responsible for my failure

You have any self doubt about whether your getting laid and you aint getting laid. The only thing you gotta do now is just act like its no big deal and flirt at somepoint with other women to make sure shes jealous enough to take you home and fuck your brains out


fact - women hate insecurities

Re: k so here is a theory about girls

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 7:31 am
by glossy
[FTF]Pyro wrote:
Tsakali_ wrote:


are you just making an attempt at a cool catchy reply or do you really believe that, cause if you do, atleast to some extend you should kill yourself


you honestly think that you choose which woman you wanna fuck.... bullshit. Next time you walk into a bar, cinema, shopping mall open your eyes and see which ones are looking at you and which ones arent


If you already do this then its exactly what I am talking about. If a women wants to have sex, shes having sex. If she doesnt there aint no way any amount of charm, patter, looks or whatever is charming the knickers off her.... it just aint happening.
lmao :olo:

So far, we've got:
- You will stick your penis in a womans ass without forewarningm and with the expectation of suprise
- You describe sex as just being "along for the ride"
- You will take anything you can get.

anything else you'd like to add?

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 7:31 am
by Tsakali_
[FTF]Pyro wrote:
Tsakali_ wrote:, I was basicaly looking forward at porking my gf but she wasn't in the mood, and to some point I hold my self personaly responsible for my failure :icon32:
So now we get down to the real point of it all.


man the reason you aint busting a nut on her right now is this.

nd to some point I hold my self personaly responsible for my failure

You have any self doubt about whether your getting laid and you aint getting laid. The only thing you gotta do now is just act like its no big deal and flirt at somepoint with other women to make sure shes jealous enough to take you home and fuck your brains out


fact - women hate insecurities
funny how I already know this yet my other head gets in the way

Re: k so here is a theory about girls

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 7:47 am
by [FTF]Pyro
glossy wrote:

anything else you'd like to add?


You think that you have ANY control over a women sexually and you're destined for failure.


Confidence isnt running around looking the best, acting the best, having the best body. Its gauging the women that already wanna fuck you, looking them in the eye and joining them for the ride.

if a woman aint into you it aint happening, if a woman aint into anal it aint happening, if a woman dont like oral it aint happening.

Confidence is being able to test all the avenues without the fear of rejection or feeling silly about what you are doing. You look a woman right in the eyes and say its happening 8/10 times it will happen, but only cause she lets it.

Re: k so here is a theory about girls

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 7:53 am
by glossy
[FTF]Pyro wrote:
glossy wrote:

anything else you'd like to add?


You think that you have ANY control over a women sexually and you're destined for failure.


Confidence isnt running around looking the best, acting the best, having the best body. Its gauging the women that already wanna fuck you, looking them in the eye and joining them for the ride.

if a woman aint into you it aint happening, if a woman aint into anal it aint happening, if a woman dont like oral it aint happening.

Confidence is being able to test all the avenues without the fear of rejection or feeling silly about what you are doing. You look a woman right in the eyes and say its happening 8/10 times it will happen, but only cause she lets it.
I can gauge women, but I don't. Take this: Walk into a room, there's 3 mingers, 4 average-looking girls, and 5 hot women. What you're saying is that if i think i'm definately in with one of the average-looking girls, then Confidence "gauging the women that already wanna fuck you, looking them in the eye and joining them for the ride.". Why bother? Why not just talk to the hottest girl in the room, pick her up and take her home?

In the same vein, if any woman comes up to you and tries to chat you up, according to your logic she has a 0% of being shot down.

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 7:56 am
by glossy
You're contradicting yourself a lot -- if a girl isn't into anal, it ain't happening, yet you're happy to stick it in and see her reaction after the fact.
also, you said that if you get a woman hot enough, she will do anything, yet if " if a woman dont like oral it aint happening.".

?

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 8:09 am
by simple
any single theory is bound to fail. The human brain can process a ton of subconscious cues. Plus what you want, and what she wants plays into it. I wouldn't be surprised if a woman would be offended by the idea of some one trying to sum up woman's behavior.

But there are defiantly some science to back your theory up. Nurture has been disproved. We know even the cells in the body operate differently between men and women. There was a great study published a year ago; about how woman process attraction. Summing up the findings; A good conversation can be like pornography for a woman. Being Interesting entertaining exciting is a great place to start. Being confidant, not acting desperate, no pressure, jokes. Witch of corse all require social skills.

But then there is also genetics. How human preserve the smell of others humans. People that have immune systems that compliment their own are perceive to smell attractive. While people with the same immune systems smell like family. Even if a woman isn't after children, attraction is still in part based off of who would provide them with better children. (remember the social skills, would lead to a better chance of survival)

Woman love to feel special. Number one thing, remember their name. Go out of the way to find out their name. From the very first time you hear it remember it. If a woman isn't certain about their attraction, forgetting their name is like poison. Ge there are those social skills popping up again.

Every social situation involving them, give them priority. Look them in the eyes, be happy to see them. Use their name.

But I agree, if a woman's not interested. They're not interested. Better to move on, find some one who's attracted to you. Then to waist time chasing an imaginary romance. If you don't know, just go out in say it. I ones herd some statistic, like if you go on a date with 100 people, only 10 of them will be even compatible.

I love that part of a beautiful mind. Where the guy realizes if they all hit on the alpha female they will all fail. While if they ignore the alpha, and approach her friends, they all have a chance to succeed.

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 8:13 am
by [FTF]Pyro
glossy wrote:You're contradicting yourself a lot -- if a girl isn't into anal, it ain't happening, yet you're happy to stick it in and see her reaction after the fact.
also, you said that if you get a woman hot enough, she will do anything, yet if " if a woman dont like oral it aint happening.".

?
Thats the point. If she doesnt want to do it she wont but you get her hot enough she will..... You dont have control over the situation you only have control over your OWN ability to perform not hers.


Your asking for definates on women here and there is nothing definative. There is a general rule



think of it like this


1-------->10 Scale of flithy

1 being a nun, 10 being Briana Blaze

Most girls fall between an 8 and a 10.

Men on the other hand are always either a 9 or a 10. We are thought to think "wicked" thoughts because thats what keeps the world going round.


Now, If you start talking to a woman "Darling I love you, lets try anal sex" Sure you may get to try it and sure you may find a woman that loves it.... not that common but not a wrong avenue to go down. But you'll more than likely get a response something akin to below

------
NO I aint trying that I dont like it *blah blah blah* Or a I tried it before and I didnt like it response from her.....
------


why? because you start talking about stuff that push womans boundaries, especially in a way which makes them FEEL like a whore when they arent ACTING like one. You get it?


You go down on a chick get her so worked up shes about to cum and start fiddling around with the backdoor entrance, thats another ball game.

Why? because she already in such a state of arousal. This pretty much enables you to have your filthy way with her but only because shes letting you. 8/10 woman will do anal, 2/10 will admit it too you though.

The reason that she is letting you is because you've put so much work into making her cum and you've got her so hot she'll pretty much do anything because shes in "fuck me now" mode..... And that includes any hole you wanna stick it.

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 8:14 am
by MKJ
pyro's the new rep

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 8:20 am
by glossy
[FTF]Pyro wrote:
glossy wrote:You're contradicting yourself a lot -- if a girl isn't into anal, it ain't happening, yet you're happy to stick it in and see her reaction after the fact.
also, you said that if you get a woman hot enough, she will do anything, yet if " if a woman dont like oral it aint happening.".

?
Thats the point. If she doesnt want to do it she wont but you get her hot enough she will..... You dont have control over the situation you only have control over your OWN ability to perform not hers.


Your asking for definates on women here and there is nothing definative. There is a general rule



think of it like this


1-------->10 Scale of flithy

1 being a nun, 10 being Briana Blaze

Most girls fall between an 8 and a 10.

Men on the other hand are always either a 9 or a 10. We are thought to think "wicked" thoughts because thats what keeps the world going round.


Now, If you start talking to a woman "Darling I love you, lets try anal sex" Sure you may get to try it and sure you may find a woman that loves it.... not that common but not a wrong avenue to go down. But you'll more than likely get a response something akin to below

------
NO I aint trying that I dont like it *blah blah blah* Or a I tried it before and I didnt like it response from her.....
------


why? because you start talking about stuff that push womans boundaries, especially in a way which makes them FEEL like a whore when they arent ACTING like one. You get it?


You go down on a chick get her so worked up shes about to cum and start fiddling around with the backdoor entrance, thats another ball game.

Why? because she already in such a state of arousal. This pretty much enables you to have your filthy way with her but only because shes letting you. 8/10 woman will do anal, 2/10 will admit it too you though.

The reason that she is letting you is because you've put so much work into making her cum and you've got her so hot she'll pretty much do anything because shes in "fuck me now" mode..... And that includes any hole you wanna stick it.
i'd like to append that exactly the same principle applies to guys. if anyone gets a guy hot enough (or, hell, even hints at the possibility of getting laid) you can have him doing almost anything.

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 8:29 am
by [FTF]Pyro
glossy wrote: i'd like to append that exactly the same principle applies to guys. if anyone gets a guy hot enough (or, hell, even hints at the possibility of getting laid) you can have him doing almost anything.
Why the fuck do you think women wear crotchless panties or thongs or puch up bra's or two piece swimming costumes


Guys run around with sexual thoughts all fucking day, A woman shows a bit of clevage and thats it , youre mowing her lawn or picking up her dry cleaning or cleaning garage or whathave you


but most women wont relate getting you hot and bothered to getting you doing anything in the bedroom cause they already KNOW you will........

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 8:32 am
by MKJ
[FTF]Pyro wrote: but most women wont relate getting you hot and bothered to getting you doing anything in the bedroom cause they already KNOW you will........
you must really had some bad lays in your day then

or you simply dont know any better. thats cool too

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 8:34 am
by 4days
MKJ wrote:pyro's the new rep
was just laughing at his posts in that other thread with the picture of the big-titted minger and thinking r+r could use someone that full of shit - but he's made an r+r thread as dull as dry toast :( it's like testo all over again. two assholes in one.

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 8:39 am
by [FTF]Pyro
MKJ wrote:
[FTF]Pyro wrote: but most women wont relate getting you hot and bothered to getting you doing anything in the bedroom cause they already KNOW you will........
you must really had some bad lays in your day then

or you simply dont know any better. thats cool too
Man I had good fucks and bad fucks.... More often Good than bad though.

All woman know you'll do anything and they play on it too.....

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 8:41 am
by [FTF]Pyro
4days wrote:
MKJ wrote:pyro's the new rep
was just laughing at his posts in that other thread with the picture of the big-titted minger and thinking r+r could use someone that full of shit - but he's made an r+r thread as dull as dry toast :( it's like testo all over again. two assholes in one.



D00d I cant be everyones Idol all the time..... Besides that thread should have been moved to QWFix, what the fuck is it doing in R&R?

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 8:43 am
by 4days
they need the traffic

Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 8:43 am
by glossy
[FTF]Pyro wrote:
glossy wrote: i'd like to append that exactly the same principle applies to guys. if anyone gets a guy hot enough (or, hell, even hints at the possibility of getting laid) you can have him doing almost anything.
Why the fuck do you think women wear crotchless panties or thongs or puch up bra's or two piece swimming costumes


Guys run around with sexual thoughts all fucking day, A woman shows a bit of clevage and thats it , youre mowing her lawn or picking up her dry cleaning or cleaning garage or whathave you


but most women wont relate getting you hot and bothered to getting you doing anything in the bedroom cause they already KNOW you will........
That's because 99% of men have no idea how to play women's games against women. I know just as well as she does that if i'm not up for it, she'll be doing herself later, and she doesn't really want that.

Am I the only bloke who doesn't think with his prick ?