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Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 3:35 pm
by losCHUNK
Freakaloin wrote:trust me...if u don't put kids on strict schedules(or at least some sort of schedule) not only will they grow up with problems, they will prolly hate u for it...
i know i aint got kids but my mates, aunties, my brother, mates brothers etc etc
so long as your bring them and teach them to respect with a level of discipline then theyll be fine, if you pile down to many rules and start giving them time tables then when they start mingling with society they will have probs fitting in
they basically become a copper and if you start acting liek that round here then your guaranteed to be the unfortunate bugger in school
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 3:38 pm
by Freakaloin
k...whatever u say chunk...rofl...
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 3:41 pm
by losCHUNK
ive seen it happen so come back to me when your kids are getting there heads flushed down the toilets in school
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 3:43 pm
by Giraffe }{unter
losCHUNK wrote:
i feel if a kid had to many rules then he would grow up to be a herbert... maybe
Structure is good it also helps the parents, My wife and I visit friends every thursday their kids are ages 2 and 4. When it's time for bed 7:00pm they race upstirs we get them changed and they pick out books for us to read, after that the go to sleep. No whining crying or complaining, bedtime is a happy time for them
Our other friends who have no structure in raising their kids. They refuse to go to bed, come out of their rooms about 15 times crying and being a general pain in the ass.
Structure is good FACT!
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 3:46 pm
by Freakaloin
yeah we went thru the no schedule thing with our first daughter...never again...kids thrive on schedules...
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 3:47 pm
by losCHUNK
Giraffe }{unter wrote:losCHUNK wrote:
i feel if a kid had to many rules then he would grow up to be a herbert... maybe
Structure is good it also helps the parents, My wife and I visit friends every thursday their kids are ages 2 and 4. When it's time for bed 7:00pm they race upstirs we get them changed and they pick out books for us to read, after that the go to sleep. No whining crying or complaining, bedtime is a happy time for them
Our other friends who have no structure in raising their kids. They refuse to go to bed, come out of their rooms about 15 times crying and being a general pain in the ass.
Structure is good FACT!
yer but a certain level, i mean you cant force them to go to the park once a day if they didnt want to
the one with kids not going to sleep n shit sounds like there just let to roam wild, what im saying you need a balance but one of the most important things a kid should be taught imho is respect
i know what your saying because ive also seen that, my aunties family went to pop because it had no stability, you need a certain balance
what i was saying was 'to many rules' of course they need some just dont be a hitler with them
kid with respect calls you uncle chunk
kid which has been left to himself kicks you in the nuts
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 3:48 pm
by HM-PuFFNSTuFF
the supervolcano just erupted![/img]
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 3:54 pm
by Giraffe }{unter
losCHUNK wrote:
what i was saying was 'to many rules' of course they need some just dont be a hitler with them
True, there is such a thing as going to far, but there is a huge difference between the quality of life for the kids in the 2 families I mentioned. Structure (within reason) could make a difference in the way a kid deals with society.
The parents are less stressed, so instead of yelling all the time because their kids are insane, they sit down and get them the "time out" but before that they actually explain what the kid did wrong.
The other parents are so stressed they loose their shit and just yell at the kids. The two kids mimic that and loose their temper with each other, and the cycle will go on from there.
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 3:54 pm
by Freakaloin
don't have kids chunk or giraffe...
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 3:55 pm
by losCHUNK
Giraffe }{unter wrote:losCHUNK wrote:
what i was saying was 'to many rules' of course they need some just dont be a hitler with them
True, there is such a thing as going to far, but there is a huge difference between the quality of life for the kids in the 2 families I mentioned. Structure (within reason) could make a difference in the way a kid deals with society.
The parents are less stressed, so instead of yelling all the time because their kids are insane, they sit down and get them the "time out" but before that they actually explain what the kid did wrong.
The other parents are so stressed they loose their shit and just yell at the kids. The two kids mimic that and loose their temper with each other, and the cycle will go on from there.
i think were in agreement ?
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 3:55 pm
by HM-PuFFNSTuFF
because the supervolcano will kill them anyway
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 3:58 pm
by Freakaloin
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 4:05 pm
by 4days
Freakaloin wrote:http://www.theforumz.com/forumz/showthread.php?s=3f14a02c10a76eecc545f566c2b4823a&threadid=115403
what happened to that fwank guy - does he alt here now or just gone?
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 4:08 pm
by HM-PuFFNSTuFF
4days wrote:Freakaloin wrote:http://www.theforumz.com/forumz/showthread.php?s=3f14a02c10a76eecc545f566c2b4823a&threadid=115403
what happened to that fwank guy - does he alt here now or just gone?
why would he stay around when everyone was mean to him? only guys like kracus, geoff and duke do that
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 4:34 pm
by Giraffe }{unter
Trying to impress your fanboys? I'd rather edit your posts then ban you. :icon30:
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 4:40 pm
by Freakaloin
pussy...
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 4:42 pm
by Giraffe }{unter
Freakaloin wrote:pussy...
Perfect example of a childhood without structure - look a the way he's lashing out for attention.
Do you blame your parents Geoffrey?
Posted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 6:27 pm
by Freakaloin
yes...